But let’s face it ladies, unless we women walk our men to the store and point out what we want in a very clear way (ie, “Honey, I want THAT for Christmas”), chances are, our guys will get us something else. And that something else could be… uhm… interesting but not quite what we were hoping for.

So, I was given the opportunity to review this fabulous site that gives tips for guys on what to give and when to give it. Relax guys, not everything jewelry-related (when you are dating) has to be an engagement ring.

Often times, I think I got better presents from my husband when we were dating. Because back in that day, he was trying very hard to impress me. Now that we have three kids and see each other everyday and night, it is safe to say that the mystery is gone. Out with the mystery and out with the jewelry. But it doesn’t have to be that way!

For husbands looking to get their wives something special… I think something like this is a great start:

Now ladies, wouldn’t you just flip if your guy came home with something like this? I know I certainly would!

Whether you get her a bracelet or an eternity ring or something else this holiday season, one thing is for sure… that special item can symbolize a re-commitment to your marriage. So guys, make sure you choose well.